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6. Rights of a Wife
The Noble Qur-an
states:
"And among His signs is that He created for you wives from among
yourselves that you may live in tranquility with them, and He has put
between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for
people who reflect." (Qur-an 30:21)
Marriage is
therefore not just a physical or emotional necessity, but in fact, a sign
from God! 'It is a relationship of mutual rights and obligations based on
divine guidance. God created men and women with complimentary natures, and
in the Qur-an, He laid out a system of laws to support harmonious
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"...They are garments for your and you are
garments for them." (Qur-an, 2:187)
Clothing provides physical protection and covers the beauty and faults
of the body. Likewise, a spouse is viewed this way. Each protects
the other and hides the faults and for compliments the characteristics
of the spouse.
To foster the
love and security that comes with marriage, Muslim wives have various
rights. The first of the wife's rights is to receive Mehr, a gift
from the husband that is part of the marriage contract and
required for the legality of the marriage.
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The
second right of the wife is maintenance. Despite any wealth she may have,
her husband is obligated to provide her with food, shelter and clothing.
He is not forced, however, to spend beyond his capability and his
wife is not entitled to make unreasonable demands. The Qur-an
states:
"Let the man of
means spend according to his means, and the man whose resources are
restricted, let him on spend according to what Allah has given him.
Allah in on puts no burden on any person beyond what He has given
him. Allah will grant after hardship, ease."
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God
tells us men are guardians over women and are afforded the leadership in
the family. His responsibility for obeying God extends to guiding his
family to obey God at all times.
A
wife's rights also extend beyond material needs. She has the right to kind
treatment. The Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him)
said: "The most perfect believers are the best in conduct. And the best of
you are those who are best to their wives." God tells us He created mates
and put love, mercy, and the tranquility between them. Both men and
women have a need for companionship and sexual needs,
and marriage is designed to fulfill those needs. |
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